It’s All About Transcendence! 3 Steps to Unleash Your Inner Magic

Abraham Maslow, the famed psychologist known for his hierarchy of needs, reportedly indicated that beyond “self-actualization” at the top of his needs pyramid, was another level – he called this level ‘transcendence.’Whereas self-actualization involves realizing your personal potential, self-fulfillment, and seeking personal growth and peak experiences, “transcendence” is abouthelping OTHERS self-actualize.This is where the magic really begins.One of the members of my

Phenomenal Entrepreneur Coaching Circle, Don Smith, built a very successful business before discovering his love for service work. Using his own money, he has helped establish over 30 orphanages in both Africa and the Philippines as well as creating reading programs for women’s groups in these areas. To hear Don speak of his mission is to be transformed. To feel the power of his heart is to transcend one’s own personal concerns and connect with the larger family that makes up our beautiful planet. As soon as his new web site is ready, I will let you know how you can participate in his incredible, transcendent vision if it speaks to you.Another coaching member discovered Don’s work and knew that helping him was her own form of transcendence. She is on fire, connected to her Life Purpose and making a big difference in the world. She is feeling the magic that comes from knowing and living her Life Purpose.Here are 3 steps to unleash your inner magic and TRANSCEND: 

#1 Discover Your Life Purpose and EXPAND

 

Are you expanding or contracting - financially, physically, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually?#2 Make a Plan for Your Life Purpose and TRANSFORM

 

I had a client – let’s call her Amy – whose Life Purpose is “Transformational Healer in the Spotlight with a Message.” 

I said, “Well, how often are you out there speaking to live groups?”

She said, “I’m not.”

We finished our session together and she said, “So, can you tell me about my business?”

I could feel her confusion. That’s how denial works. We sometimes don’t want to see the obvious, natural and EASY step because it can feel uncomfortable. My suggestion to her was to schedule speaking twice a month and send out her newsletter once a month by mail to begin building her ongoing dialogue with her clients. By making this plan and implementing it, she found traction, momentum and commitment to her dream. This began her transformation into the life she really wanted to live!#3 Live Your Life Purpose and TRANSCEND

 

As you continue to express your Life Purpose in all you do and all that you are, you may find that just fulfilling your own goals of a great relationship, glowing health, a nice home, etc. is NOT enough. You are maybe a little bored or frustrated. This is a sign that you want to help OTHERS fulfill their purposes. This the

KEY to transcendence and REAL magic in your life. When you set out BEFORE you have all the money, evidence, proof and support to help others, the help comes. When Don committed to working in Africa, he had no idea how to do it. Once he was there and committed to his project, the money, help and opportunities began rolling in to support his dream. But not BEFORE…AFTER he said YES to his purpose.

The formula goes like this: 

“I’m confused. > Found my Life Purpose! (expand) > Living my dream life! (transform)> Helping others live their dream lives! > Transcendence!”

If you are READY to transform your life and be an agent of transcendence, don’t miss my Life Purpose Spiritual Summit. You will experience an entirely new way of being in the world. I’ve even seen the room glow with the energy created by people embracing their true paths in the world!


If you are READY to transform your life and be an agent of transcendence, don’t miss my Life Purpose Spiritual Summit. You will experience an entirely new way of being in the world. I’ve even seen the room glow with the energy created by people embracing their true paths in the world!

 

The 5 Biggest Misconceptions about Hand Analysis…and How to Avoid Them?

1. “You Don’t Really Believe in That Stuff, Do You?”
The ONLY people who say this are the people who know NOTHING about hand analysis. Don’t let this be you. (Yes, I admit it – this is my pet peeve question.) Only ignorance can cause a person to belittle something they know nothing about. (Please feel free to use this as comfort if you are ever confronted by unfounded derision toward something you love.)

As a hand analyst, I practice both an art that is over 5,000 years old and a science that is being updated daily as more and more is being discovered about the link between the brain and the hands. Frank Wilson, a well-regarded neuroscientist, studied hand analysis at the same school I did and he references our brilliant teacher, Richard Unger, in his book, aptly entitled, “The Hand.”

2. “Can You Tell Me How Long I’m Going to Live?”
No. I can’t. As a hand analyst, I don’t make predictions. You are the best prognosticator for your future. Your choices have the power to alter your course or keep it moving straight ahead. My job is to help you remember the essence of who you are, inspire you to reclaim your birth right, and empower you to live your life purpose without excuses or apologies. I’m not going to do you the disservice of planting a prediction in your head for you to obsess over. Where’s the power in that?

3. “You’re Not Going to Tell Me Anything Bad, Are You?”
For the record, there is nothing “bad” in the hands. I see everything as a positive. If you have a gift, that’s a positive. If you’re not using the gift, you’ll experience a challenge. As Richard Unger says, this challenge is merely an AFGO – “another f’in growth opportunity.” :-) It’s all about learning. To me, the only truly “bad” thing is to not learn from your successes and failures. To repeat unflattering behavioral patterns – now that’s bad.

4. “Do You Actually Earn a Living Doing This?”
Yes, I do. I currently have a six-figure 1ncome reading hands and then coaching my clients so they can utilize the hand analysis information pro-actively and practically in their everyday lives. I developed the coaching protocol on my own when clients saw me out again and again for understanding and clarity.

5. “You Went to School For This?!”
Yes, I studied for a year at the International Institute of Hand Analysis in Marin County, California to become a certified hand analyst. Sometimes people think I can see all that I do in a person’s hands because of something I learned during my travels abroad or that I have a special “gift.” If only it were that simple. It does require a love of human interaction and a curiosity about the human psyche, to be sure, but what has given me authority to reveal the intimate details in your life is your hands. And I had to study – and I continue to study – to stay on my toes.

Okay. Glad I got that off my chest. Thanks for reading.

What Your Heart Lines Reveal About You AT WORK!

There are four basic types of heart lines.

Your heart lines reveal your emotional style. Your dominant-hand heart line is your emotional style “at work” and your non-dominant hand heart line is your emotional style “at home.” Today’s article will focus on your emotional style at work.

The Hermit Heart Line

Hand analyst, Pamelah Tablak, calls the Earth -element heart line the “Hermit.” This heart line begins beneath the pinky and travels across the hand to stop beneath the middle finger.

If you have a Hermit heart line, you like your personal freedom. You do well working on your own and/or being your own boss. You can’t stand someone breathing down your neck or micro-managing your projects. Many owners of Hermit heart lines are entrepreneurs. Your favorite phrase is, “Not now. I’m busy.” You ARE busy – busy working!

You also like to be the “master of your environment.” You like to have your own working space and are keenly aware if someone has swiped a few stamps or moved your stapler! You also like projects completed in an organized manner – you understand the concept of “beginning, middle and end.”

Since the Hermit heart line is a straight line, rather than a curved line, you tend to keep your feelings close to the breast rather than openly displaying them in the moment. You may find that talking and feeling at the same time is rather challenging. You prefer to get some “cave time” – hermit that you are – so you can process your feelings on your own schedule.

The Romantic Idealist Heart Line

Tablak calls the Air-element heart line the “Romantic Idealist.” This heart line begins beneath the pinky and travels across the hand to stop beneath the pointer finger.

If you have a Romantic Idealist heart line, you like romance, long conversations and creating understanding. You seek first to understand before seeking to be understood. You like forward-thinking approaches to problems since you want to create an “ideal” future scenario.

Common professions for Romantic Idealists include: law, copywriting, coaching, writing, architecture, music composing, brainstorming and other fields that focus on conceptualizing future, ideal scenarios.

Your challenges include over-analyzing (“analysis paralysis”), justifying, rationalizing and explaining as well as becoming too critical of yourself or others if things aren’t “ideal.”

Since the Romantic Idealist heart line is a straight line like the Hermit heart line, rather than a curved line, you tend to talk and talk (… and talk!) about your feelings, feelings, feelings… rather than openly display them. How improper and messy! You want your emotional presentation to be ideal, so you could potentially spend a lot of time fantasizing about the ideal time and place to reveal your true feelings – positive or negative. The question is: Can you reveal what you are REALLY feeling right now, in the moment?

The Passionate Heart Line

Tablak calls the Fire-element heart line the “Passionate.” This heart line begins beneath the pinky and travels across the hand and upwards to stop at the base of the middle finger.

If you have a Passionate heart line, you tend to know what you want – and you want it NOW! The gift of this heart line is passion, vivaciousness, and charisma. You are here to teach other people to discover what they want by being clear about what you want. You are a lightning rod for CLEAR desire!

In the workplace, Passionates need a lot of variety, as they HATE to be bored. (Notice the word “hate” – very dramatic and very Passionate!) If you have a Passionate heart line, you need to be interacting with lots of different kinds of people and do well when you have an audience. Professions can include public speaking, sales, acting, information marketing, singing, dancing, public relations – basically anything that puts you front and center as “the star.”

Your challenges include denying your true needs, which can lead to inappropriate acting out and passive-aggressive tendencies or just total chaotic drama-queen drama-trauma. These types of episodes can occur when you think your not getting enough attention and can lead to situations where you get “negative” attention – such as for your myriad problems, phobias, addictions, and so forth. Remember, drama is for the stage! LOL!

Since the Passionate heart line is a CURVED line, unlike the Hermit or Romantic Idealist heart line, the “curve” lends emotionality to your emotional expression. The more “curve” a line has, the more the heart and its feelings are involved. Firey, Passionate heart line owners have the least amount of delay between feeling a feeling and expressing it openly. Anger might show up as a red face and dishes flying where as happiness could result in a giant smile and teary eyes.

The Big Heart Heart Line

Tablak calls the Water-element heart line the “Big Heart.” This heart line begins beneath the pinky and travels across the hand and upwards to stop at the base of the pointer finger.

If you have a Big Heart heart line, you have a non-negotiable need for emotional connection. Non-negotiable means you need to have it – you can’t bargain for it. You NEED to have emotional connection to “feel okay” and alright with the world.

In the workplace, Big Hearts do well working intimately with others, in such professions as networking, coaching, nursing, healing, hospice, counseling, and so forth. They dislike the feeling of disconnection and hence, may sometimes stay too long in a dead relationship simply to avoid the disconnection (which has already happened anyway).

If you are a Big Heart and you’ve noticed that you’re feeling a little clingy and needy, the question to ask yourself is: What do I need right now? Having healthy “self-ish ness” doesn’t come easily to Big Hearts, but without it, you could become a martyr – and that’s not pretty, no matter how you slice it!

The Big Heart heart line is CURVED like the Passionate heart line, (the “curve” lends emotionality to your emotional expression) and you tend to easily show your hurts, joys, and pains.

Torn Between Two Businesses, Feeling Like a Fool? Discover HOW To Choose

Remember the song that goes, “torn between two lovers, feeling like a fool?” I know I can feel that way about all sorts of things – not just lovers. Grin. Perhaps you’re struggling to decide which business idea to focus on. You know you need to choose, but you don’t know how. Your hands give us clues as to what may be challenging you.

The middle zone of your thumb is known as your zone of logic or the “third eye” zone. This part of your hand represents your ability to discern, plan, and decide. This zone, between the tip and base of your thumb, can sometimes contain a series of horizontal lines. These horizontal lines operate as energy blocks.

If you find these horizontal lines on the middle zone of your thumb, it means you are inundated with choices. If you are a business owner or wanting to start a business, you probably either own one or more businesses or you’re having trouble deciding which one to focus on.

Let’s use logic to explore your dilemma.

#1 You have LOTS of choices, lots of options. This is good. This represents abundance.

#2 Chances are you created all these choices because you have many talents. This is also abundance.

#3 You want to satisfy every choice and end up with lots of unfinished projects.

#4 You struggle with overwhelm, lack of focus, frustration, and indecision.

#5 Planning and implementing a CLEAR plan… huh, what’s a plan???

If you have horizontals on the middle zone of your thumb, you are abundant but confused. What is required is MAKING A CHOICE. In this particular situation, HOW you choose is more important than WHAT you choose. You simply need to choose and stick with that choice.

Here’s is my pet formula for HOW to choose well.

Get a piece of paper and lay it down landscape-style. Draw a grid on the paper with 5 rows and approximately 15 columns . Make a list of all the options, ideas, and goals you are currently contemplating and put them at the top of each column. (You may need more than one piece of paper, LOL!)

Then list your top 5 values down the left-hand column, one for each row. (Mine include Love, Health, Presence, Creativity and Freedom.) Going across each row, rate the project listed at the top of the column from 1 to 5 – 1 the lowest, 5 the highest – in terms of how that project expresses the value in the corresponding row. For example, let’s say I want to publish a new e-book. I would go down the column, rating that project from 1 to 5 in terms of love, health, presence, creativity and freedom.

Now, add up the totals for each column at the bottom of the page. Which projects ranked highest and which ranked lowest for honoring your values? Now, pick the project that rated highest and FINISH it. Do whatever it takes to stay focused on your target. A coach, mastermind group, or goal-buddy can be invaluable. Just remember, you MUST choose or continue to run like a hamster on the wheel of choices.

Our New President: Revealed By His Hands

President Barack Obama is left-handed. Only 10% of the population is left-handed. It is my observation of left-handed folks in general that they tend to be less prone to listening to others and more prone to follow their own convictions, whether those convictions buck the trend or conform with it. (Right handers can certainly be mavericks, too! It’s just that given the smaller population of lefties, there appears to be a larger population among them that has that desire to stand out from the crowd and simply do things differently.) They think creatively about situations and do have maverick streaks. Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie and Nicole Kidman are all lefties, too, for whatever that’s worth.

Obama’s little finger curves in a bit towards the palm which indicates a fear of being too vulnerable and seeking protection. He works toward tremendous self-control to not show his vulnerability. The finger is also a bit curved, like a crescent moon, indicating trust issues, possibly relating to early abandonment by his father.

His heart line, which starts beneath the little finger and curves up between the middle and pointer finger. This is the Big Heart heart line, indicating that Obama is a nurturing, generous and caring person. He has a non-negotiable need for connection. His heart goes out to the wounded birds of the world – the less fortunate.

His head line, which begins on the palm between the pointer finger and the thumb, is separated from his life line, which happens in about 20% of hands. It indicates “independence of thought.” Obama absolutely thinks for himself and comes to his own conclusions. Because of this, he is unlike to be bought or sold very easily.

His head line is also a gift marker, know as the “Hal 9000″ – named after Hal 9000 in the movie, 2001: A Space Odyssey. This type of head line goes almost all the way across the hand, but stops about a ¼ inch from the edge of the palm. This gift indicates that Obama’s mind works like a super computer, able to parallel process huge amounts of data quickly. He is the grand synthesizer. He needs a job that is big, complicated and important. Being President of the United States would certainly satisfy this headline.

Most folks who have this thinking ability have a mind that is chronically underemployed. If YOU have a gifted problem-solver head line, you need a large, world-scale issue to solve or your mind will create large problems, particularly in your personal life, to keep itself occupied.

You can choose: solve a world-scale problem or create tangled webs all over your life to try to untangle. (If you want to find out more about the Hal 9000 head line, why not join our Master Mind this month which focuses on this gift? You can find out more here.)

The vertical line extending upward toward his little finger is a “line of insight” indicating that Obama is introspective and interested in the deeper meaning of life. He asks questions such as “Why are we here?” and “What is our purpose?”

Our finger zones indicate our business niche. Obama’s two largest zones on his right hand are the middle zone of his pointer finger (goals) and the bottom zone of his middle finger (nature, the environment, values and moral code). Obama’s personal goals are goals that improve quality of life, particularly as it relates to open space, undeveloped land and natural resources. He is likely to be a big advocate for environmental protections and conservation. (I also get the sense that Obama said as little as possible during the campaign about his BIG plans for the U.S. in terms of being an energy leader. Time will, of course, tell.)

The tip of his thumb is very large, indicating enormous drive and will power. The way his fingers sit on the ridge of his palm indicate he is a teacher and leader called to the spotlight. The mounts of Venus (at the base of the thumb on the palm) and the Moon (across from the Mount of Venus) are large, indicating that Obama is a phenomenal storyteller with a romantic bent and love of culture. He is a sensitive, thoughtful person who is more likely to become sad than angry when he sees injustice in the world.

Baeth’s Coach’s Challenge: What is YOUR large, world-scale issue to solve? If you didn’t see it as a ‘problem,’ who would you have to BE-come to make inroads to change?

Built for the Spotlight Sarah Palin

Before I bring you an analysis on Hillary Clinton, our new Secretary of State, I thought it might be fun to see what Sarah Palin holds in her hands.

No matter what you may think of Ms. Palin, she holds up a hand that loves politics – and the spotlight. It’s actually quite similar in shape to Hillary Clinton’s hands. Her index/pointer finger is tucking in front of her middle finger, indicating that she is not showing her “full hand” in terms of her real political ambitions. She wants more power but is playing it cool.

Her thumb bends at the top joint toward the palm, indicating that Palin is a traditionalist with nostalgic notions of how life used to be (and how she thinks it should be again).

Palin possesses a large mount of Venus, like McCain and Obama, so her lust for life is also very large. This large mount of Venus coupled with her long ring finger indicates that she is physically attractive and a ‘beauty queen’ type. We know this of course, from her bio, but I can identify this beauty trait from the hands without ever seeing the person. This is the hand of a physically attractive person.

She is good-natured as evidenced by the pink color of her skin.

The large Mount of Jupiter under her pointer finger indicates she is drawn to leadership roles. Compared with Obama and McCain, Palin is the most natural for “living in the spotlight.” The spotlight loves her, whether it’s television, politics or the movies.

Despite the election loss, I suspect that Sarah Palin will be in the spotlight for many, many years to come.

How Feeling “Ugly” Can Help You Prosper

I divided my ring finger into the three standard zones: upper, middle and bottom.

The middle zone of the ring finger, when it is the strongest of the three zones, represents the material aspects of creativity. These can include design in many forms (clothing, furniture, jewelry) and arts & crafts.

When the middle zone of the ring finger on either hand is the smallest of the three zones or has a “waisted” effect as my middle zone does, it means that the person is going through or went through an ugly duckling stage during their teen years.

What makes this aspect so very challenging is that the “ugly duckling” can only see their flaws, real or imagined. The lack of perceived ‘beauty’ in their own ‘physical design,’ i.e. their face and body, becomes all-consuming, crowding out other positive features, talents and skills. As a result, the “ugly” obsession often materializes externally, leaving the teenager to be ridiculed and excluded by their peers for being “ugly,” different or just plain weird.

So what is an ugly duckling in recovery to do? For me, it meant recovering from years of downplaying my physical appearance with black, baggy clothes and no makeup. In the past four years, I have found the best fabric colors, hair style, and jewelry designs to enhance my unique sensibilities.

In order to turn the ugly duckling years into an asset, it means claiming your beauty and reveling in it. No more hiding, no more excuses. I’ve integrated my color schemes into my web design, my home design and my wardrobe. The ugly duckling ain’t such a bad “designer” after all.

And THAT, my friends, is how the ugly duckling becomes a swan… by singing her song, strutting her stuff and getting HELP with areas that are uncomfortable. So, if you’re not sure how to wear your hair or makeup or are a fashion disaster, get some help and let yourself shine!

My mentor in this area is Kailash Sozzani. To see what she can do for you, check her out here.

Here’s my Coach’s Challenge for you this week:

Go through your closet and toss out EVERYTHING you don’t like, don’t wear or are saving for the proverbial rainy day. Sell it on E-Bay, give it to charity, or throw it away if it’s not worthy of passing on. Free yourself of all that does not reflect your true beauty.

Baeth Davis, “The Hand Analyst,” is a professional hand analyst specializing in non-predictive palmistry. She helps female entrepreneurs, small business owners and women experiencing major life transitions to discover the calling of their souls and create practical, pragmatic business plans to make their unique life purposes both meaningful AND profitable. Visit Baeth at http://www.handanalyst.com to learn more and get a free copy of “The 5 Massive Mistakes Spiritually Oriented Women Make in Business (and How to Avoid Them!”