“3 Keys to Clear Communication - In YOUR Hands”

Posted on Jan. 22, 2010 by Baeth in General

#1 Your Throat Is Missing!

In the hand print image above, the lower zone of the thumb where it attaches to the palm is ‘missing.’ In reality, the individual’s thumb is intact, but the ink didn’t take. Hand prints don’t lie. They give a read out of what you are experiencing at any given point in time.

The bottom zone of the thumb represents the fifth chakra, or the throat chakra. This chakra is your doorway to manifestation. Once your connect with the dream in your heart (fourth chakra), it is essential you speak up and communicate this dream in the world.

When you don’t speak your true desires, the desires may become cloudy, confusing or lost. Physically, you may experience vocal chord issues, a sore throat, laryngitis, canker sores, or other throat ailments. It is not uncommon for someone to lose their voice right before an important singing recital or public speech.

Your word is the first step to creation in the material world. By drawing, collaging, writing, speaking and singing your dreams, you are asking the Universe for what you want.

And the Universe is ALWAYS answering…

The question is, “Are you receiving?”

Which leads me to Communication Key #2.

#2 You’re Worried That You Don’t Deserve It!

The next marker in the hand print is a slight curve in the upper tip of the middle finger. This is known as the ‘worry curve’ and indicates that you are worried about how your future is going to turn out.

This worry curve is an indicator of self-worth issues that manifest as doubt, second-guessing, and, of course, ‘worry.’ Low self-worth has a curious manifestation of its own: the inability to fully receive.

Imagine that you ask the Universe for what you want but then worry you won’t receive it. Either because you feel you don’t deserve it or you’ll be disappointed if it doesn’t come in the wrapping paper you expect.

Ever had a compliment rejected by someone who couldn’t just say “thank you?” Ever rejected a compliment because you couldn’t say “thank you?” If saying “thank you” for a compliment is difficult, how on earth can you receive love, generosity, support, abundance, great clients, lots of money, vibrant health?

It IS obvious, but oh so challenging to simply ASK and RECEIVE.

I invite you to practice, for one week, asking for everything you need and want – from the Universe, your friends, your spouse, your clients – and simply say “thank you” for whatever they offer you – even if it’s a “no” answer. Especially if it’s a “no” because being appreciative of everything opens you up to receiving more and more of exactly what you need and truly desire.

#3 You Want Love. You Fear Love. You Isolate. You Feel Lonely. You are NOT an Island!

The third marker on the pictured print is a bubble that appears on the heart line in the vicinity beneath the ring finger and little finger. This bubble is an island of trouble – emotional trouble. A ‘trouble bubble.’

The ring finger represents creativity and the little finger represents communication. A bubble on the heart line indicates that when you’re having trouble communicating your creativity or creatively communicating your emotional truth, you’re apt to feel like nothing is going out and nothing is coming in. You are stranded on an island of emotional pain and no one can hear you – or cares to hear you. In this wounded state, you put up your defenses, fearing criticism and rejection – particularly from your peers, and dig yourself deeper into the sand of isolation island.

The moment you realize you are alone and lonely is the moment you can change everything. The burden of communication rests with you. Are you willing to speak up and ask for what you need? Are you willing to risk criticism, rejection and ridicule to be true to your creative expression? If you’re not feeling heard, have you told the person you’re having the issue with what’s going on? If not, why not?

The thing is, if you let your feelings bottle up, that bubble will blow and it won’t be pretty. It may stay intact in your hand print, but it will splatter blood all over the people you say you love the most. They will wonder why you let the isolation and unexpressed feelings gather for so long. How could they help you in your isolation if you didn’t say a word?

The next time you don’t feel heard, ask yourself, “Have I gone to the person in question and told them directly what I’m feeling and what I need?” If not, I invite you to gather up your courage and do so. I’ve seen people do rather unpleasant things to themselves and others when they let things slide because ‘it didn’t seem like a big deal at the time.’

Believe me, anything that you say, “oh, it’s no big deal” about IS a BIG DEAL. That’s the giveaway phrase. Speak up, preferably in the moment if appropriate, and clear things up.

Most human challenges can be solved with open, honest communication. It seems obvious, but notice where you withhold important information, deny your feelings or simply decide to ‘walk away’ rather than speak up, placing the blame entirely on the other person. If you do this, not only will your relationships suffer, your creativity will become blocked. Energy is energy and energy needs to MOVE.

Clear the air and open up to the Divine spark moving through you. You will see wonders in your life when you express yourself in present time, rather than letting things bottle up.

Coach’s Challenge: Make a list of all the people in your life you have unresolved communications with. Now, ask yourself, “Have I done EVERYTHING in my power to communicate directly with this person?” If not, I invite you to call that person up and clear the air by using “I” statements and expressing YOUR needs and feelings. Remember, your feelings are about you, not the other person. Not now, not ever. You are wasting precious, precious energy holding grudges. Remember, no one knows what’s going on with you if you don’t tell them. You can hardly be mad at people for not being able to intuit your cryptic ‘signs.’

One person told me recently, “I felt I tried to tell you.” Trying to tell is NOT the same as actually speaking your specific, exact, visceral truth. And how does one “feel” that they tried? Trying is not a feeling. Don’t fool yourself or rationalize. The truth is your truth and ONLY YOU can say it. No one can figure it out for nor say it for you. As a coach, I tell my clients, “The coach is not responsible for things of which she is unaware.”

Just SAY IT! And be free.

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